Thursday, September 2, 2010

THIS IS MY REPLY

First off, I know I HAD a great opportunity! Its going to be rough once I move out but Ive done it before and I can again.

I didnt and dont think its anybodies job to do anything for me. I take care of my child they best way that I can. Everyone cooked and cleaned! Yes Alicia cooked most of the time but she is a way better cook than I am. But I DID cook for her and Matt as well did Matt cooked for us. I cleaned the house constantly during the day... the kitchen the most. There was multiple times I would have the house looking great and Matt would come home and put a piece of furniture together before Alicia got home. Or Alicia would get home and things would get cluttered and I wouldnt touch her stuff cause i didnt want to lose anything. I took out my fair bags of trash and when we first moved in, on trash day I would take the trash to the curb. As for picking up after me, I tried my damn hardest that all my stuff was in my room. Sure I missed a few things but im human.

Now to hit your "shop"ing comment. That was one of our deals. She would get me the necessities because I wasnt getting that much for spending money. Plus I never once asked her to buy me something. You might count the swimsuit but 1. I didnt have one and she wanted us to go swimming. and 2. she hadn't paid me yet so I didnt have my own money.


Plus before they had the basement neatly set up I barely had the girls play down there. Once we did, Thats when I would clean upstairs. Alicia had them alone downstairs more than I did.

You nor Alicia new when I got up. I would normally be up somewhere from 7:30-8 cause at 8 I fed them! I ALWAYS fed them around 8! SO dont you dare say I didnt feed them. We didnt have a monitor down there for awhile so I never knew what time Sophia got up if it was before 7:30! Its NOT my fault that Sophia did not come upstairs to go potty when she woke up. As of KB and Viv being left in their diapers for hours THAT is not true as well. I changed them frequently and often told Alicia we were out of diapers and she would say we had some. She didnt know how many i changed in a day.

As for the way Karly is treated. She is treated very well thank you! I did a lot of things with the girls. Yes not much for educational but oh well. I still did a lot with them I even had a playdoh set they played with. Oh and Karlys developmental state. She is slow in speaking but SHE IS GETTING BETTER EVERYDAY! She understands EVERYTHING I tell her. Yes I need to work on colors and numbers and letters but other than that she is very well developed. I HAVE talked to her doctor and she gave me information and said I just need to talk to her more, which I am and everyday she has a new word! Your not here so you dont know whats going on, and what i am doing for and with her.

Ok Alicia is more of an adult than I am. I admit that. She is very mature and such. But I do NOT sit at home making a mess and expect her to clean it up for me! I DONT want people to feel sorry for me. SHE was the one who wanted me to live with her and I agreed. She nor I had to do so. And to say that I expect things to handed to me is such bull! Oh and with the depression thing. I think your just trying to make shit up. No I am not depressed. Im mostly lazy but I do get off my ass and get what I need to get done, done. I get warn out easy. But I do do the dishes and clean the kitchen and bathroom and if I had time the living room. I think I cleaned more than Alicia did before all this shit happened.

The last thing I want is for Alicia to feel like she is stuck with me and needs to baby me. I dont! She's the one wanting to help me so if she does feel like it maybe she should stop. Sorry that I felt like a guest at your house. When I have a guest over I tend to do things for them, sorry if you didnt want to treat me as one.

I personally dont care that you resent me in driving the truck. It was NOT my fault im doing so. I liked the Explorer more than the truck but that was Alicias decision. She was the one who told me that she was giving the explorer to you. I was going to rely on buses to get everywhere and then Alicia told me you were giving her the truck. I personally dont like trucks but its transportation so im using it to my advantage.

I NEVER once blamed Alicia for what happened! I was mad at first but once we talked I owned up to my faults! I got a job and I am planning on moving out! As for people "talking to me repeatedly" HA! Matt nor Demi have come up to me and said shit to me! Jaimie has a couple times and I did take her advice to heart and she maybe only came to talk to me twice about it! Alicia barely came up to me to tell me if i needed to do things better.

But anyways. I really wish you did see what I did everyday, up until what had happened. But thats life. you will only get one side and I dont blame you for taking your daughters.

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