Message cont. (2-2)

There are things that we are supposed to learn in kindergarten, such as if you make a mess clean it up. I cannot believe that you expect to sit around and make giant messes without participating at all in the clean up efforts. Alicia is stuck in a horrible position. She is only 1 year older than you, however, she is apparently supposed to be the adult and do everything, while everyone is supposed to feel sorry for you. I don’t. Maybe you missed the boat growing up and think that life should be handed to you and comes with free maid service or maybe you are depressed. If you are depressed and didn’t used to act like this then I think you should get some help. If you are just irresponsible and filthy, then wake up and grow up. Either way, your daughter needs you.
If you were anyone other than who you are, Alicia would have fired you within a week or so and you would have been long gone. However, she is stuck feeling responsible for you. I also know that she isn’t exaggerating. When you were at my house, you didn’t clean up a thing or get up unless made to do so. HELLO!!!

As for me, I’m mad at you for not taking good care of the girls. I also resent you driving the truck. I liked that truck and the Explorer should have stayed Alicia’s to be sold when no one needed it for the girls anymore.

Normally I stay out of things, but those girls are my grandchildren and you are blaming Alicia as though this is her fault. Everyone including Matt, Jamie and Demi talked to you repeatedly to no avail. I doubt that this will have any more impact on you, but I needed to state my peace.
Nannette"